Archive | single father RSS feed for this section

New Interview: Passport to Parenting

9 Apr


Several weeks ago I had the opportunity to meet with Kim DeMarchi and Ann DeWitt of Passport To Parenting and tape a live show on my book, The Dad Connection. Not only did I have a wonderful time meeting with both of them, but it’s always special when you find that someones parenting values align with your own.

Please listen as the ladies at Passport to Parenting and I discuss:

  • Three rules I used when raising my boys
  • The most important thing you can do as a parent
  • The building the bridge metaphor from The Dad Connection
  • Advice for single parents
  • Our personal parenting inspirations
  • How to stay connected to your child, even in the tween years

CLICK HERE to hear our conversation and the full Passport to Parenting show on The Dad Connection.


The Parenting Generational Gap

9 Jan

A Taste:
We have the wonderful opportunity today to know much more than our parents and our offspring will know much more than us. This is the cycle that should advance, not the tired and overused “I didn’t have it and I turned out okay, so you will be fine too” mentality.  It takes a wish to learn more, to understand better and to provide a different intelligence as the parent. This is a different paradigm than that of many of our previous generations and it should be embraced.

The Parenting Generational Gap – Part 1 –
The Parenting Generational Gap – Part 2 –

Scott Hanley On KATU News

17 Sep

Guest Post: Single Parents

4 Sep

My guest post on Single Parents is up on The Successful Single Dad.


Service To Our Children

20 Jun

{This post is part of a recurring series of thoughts about service to our children}

Martin Luther King, Jr., and Gandhi understood the deepest meaning of service and valued its capacity to change lives. The value they placed on service in their words and actions directly or indirectly impacted millions of people. When we have children, we have a chance to make a difference in at least one person’s life. Serving our children gives us an opportunity to practice this unique and powerful tool on a level that is significant, yet manageable. People who have truly happy memories of their experiences with their parents will be happier parents themselves and raise even happier kids.

Ian and Max posing when they were little.

In serving our children, we as parents must have faith in the value of the act itself. If we expect our kids to reward us for our acts of service, we may be wholeheartedly disappointed. Our kids will not recognize what we do as true service for a long time. We serve our kids because we love and respect them, value the unique opportunities of childhood, and place their needs above our own. The immediate reward we receive for our acts of service is the potential for greater self-knowledge and a deepened understanding of our place in the world and a better connection to the person in front of us. That’s pretty good, huh? I believe that learning the deeper meaning of service is paramount to living a rich and rewarding life.

To read more posts in this series, come back to read Valuing Service on June 27th.