Try a little tenderness.

8 Sep

How do you exude confidence and security without scaring off new relationships?

I suggested to a close friend that she try to tone her “projection’ down by thinking of how she can express herself with more tenderness. Just the mere intent of tenderness changes our energy.

I know this young woman has great tenderness within her and that it is available to her but she has underestimated her relationships with regard to how sensitive they might be to her strong initial surge of energy.

This is not to mean that she should treat a new acquaintance like a baby…just appreciate that he might be more sensitive that she thinks he should be.


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